Sleep was going downhill. With the baby, I mean. There were 15-minute naps at non-nap times and no naps at naptimes, and at bedtime there was nurse nurse nurse nurse nurse, fiiiiinally drift off to sleep, geeeently attempt to put down, startle, wake up and cry, nurse nurse nurse nurse nurse til I thought I would lose my mind.
There is no accounting for what happened next. Saturday night after the third nurse nurse nurse nurse, I thought to myself, I bet she doesn’t even really want to nurse. I bet she just wants to lie in that crib and go to sleep. So I gave her a little head snuggle (soft baby heads! They are why I do this at all!) and put her in the crib. Lay on the bed next to the crib where she could see me. Watched the clock and tried to relax.
She cried for two minutes, but (speaking of what you hear when your kids cry) it wasn’t even like Mama, you are abandoning me! Pick me up! I’m dying! at all. It was more like I’m tired! Tired! AAAAA! Tired, tired! Ti…
And then she turned her head to one side, said ummm and went to sleep. For three hours, which is the longest she’s slept in days. Textbook! I should have taken advantage of it to sleep, but I stayed up until midnight playing euchre (isn’t euchre quaint?) and eating chocolate chip cookies.
And then naps today were like that, too. Well, they were still pitifully short, but instead of nursing her until I felt like my brains were being pulled out through my nipples, I lay her in her crib and cooed at her while she cried for between thirty seconds and three minutes and then zonked out on her own.
Also, today Ingrid peed on the potty three times and only wore a diaper at naptime and when out for a walk. I won’t go into it but this was totally unheard of before today.
And at dinner I gave Iris some bits of banana to occupy her. (Should I not be doing that? Should I be reading up on the Heimlich?) She didn’t get many of them to her mouth anyway, but she pulverized some of them and scraped the rest off into her lap, and then I swear to God she very deliberately tapped her little mitten-y hands together in the sign for more. She did it three times, and then after I gave her another pile of banana chunks she didn’t do it again. A saw it too. Is that totally unheard of, that a six-month-old could do a sign? She’s seen me do it a few dozen times in the past week but…is that even possible?
Also, she can now scooch forward. Not crawling, exactly, but for a non-crawler she is all of a sudden damn mobile. As of Saturday.
And after months of resisting my doing anything with her hair, Ingrid is all of a sudden into wearing pigtails and it is ADORABLE.
And this week Ingrid and I discovered the kids’ non-fiction section at the library. Why had we only been looking at the fiction before? She chose a book about butter, two about bees, one about lacrosse, and one called The Biography of Wheat.
The bees were what started it. I bought some honey in a honeycomb at the co-op as a treat and I felt I needed some backup for my assertion that the honey was in that thing because the bees put it there. Who put it there, Mama?
I wish I had something more coherent to say. I’ve been eating a lot of toast with honey. I have a lot of work-y stuff going on that I can’t exactly write about. I’ve knitted four inches of that bag (and by the way, I forgot to mention: All that yarn? Cost four dollars!) And I’m wondering, is there sometimes something wrong with bloglines where nothing comes up for, like, twelve hours, or has the entire blogging community just taken up the practice of observing the Sabbath?